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47 Cards in this Set
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self-disclosure
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intentionally letting the other person know who you are by communicating self-revealing information
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self perceived i
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the image you project, the way you perceive yourself
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other perceived me
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the person that others perceive you to be
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self fulfilled person
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the person who confidently chooses what to reveal and to whom and is not intimidated into a negative self-concept and realizes that there will always be problems, frustrations and failures in life
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pregiving
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you give the person something he or she may want in order to help convince the person to act as you might want him or her to act
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liking
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trying to put the other person in a receptive mood by being friendly
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promise
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proposing assistance or conformity with your view, you might make a promise
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threat
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the intention to use influence or control over the other person if he or she doesn't conform to your request
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self-feelings
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a statement of your own guilt within your own proposal
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esteem
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indicating there is a reward if one conforms with your request
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debt
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indicating someone is indebted to you, so they must conform to their request
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power
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the ability to control what happens, to create things you want to happen and to block things you don't want to happen
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expert power
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you capacity to influence another person because of the knowledge and skills you are presumed to have
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referent power
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based on personal loyalty, friendship, affection, and admiration
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reward power
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you are perceived as the best or only source of desired rewards
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coercive power
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based on possible negative outcomes that are used as weapons
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legitimate power
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stems from one person's perception that another person has the right to make requests of him or her because of the position that the other person occupies
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tag questions
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questions added onto the end of statements. women tend to use more of these
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sexual harassment
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generalized sexist remarks or behavior
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bullying
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verbally or physically attacking someone
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interpersonal relationships
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social associations, connections, or affiliations
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knapp's relationship escalation model
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comprised of initiation, experimenting, intensifying, integrating, bonding
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initiation
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receiving/sending basic information like names, majors, etc
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experimenting
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asking questions of each other in order to gain more information
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intensifying
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self-disclosure becomes more common, less formal relationship
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integrating
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includes best friends, couples, or engaged
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bonding
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formal, sometimes legal, announcement of the relationship takes place. marriages or forming a business partnership
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economic model of relationships
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as long as rewards are equal to or exceed costs, the relationship will usually become more intimate
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relational conflict
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developing tension, false ignoring, resentment, unforgiveness
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tension develops
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disagreements start
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false ignoring
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the decision to stop talking about the topic of disagreement
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resentment
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the end result of repeated disappointment
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unforgiveness
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one partner has crossed over in the other partner's mind to being "bad"
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knapp's relationship termination model
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differentiating, circumscribing, stagnating, avoiding, terminating
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differentiating
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one or both partners being aware that he or she needs to assert independence
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circumscribing stage
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illustrated by the diminishment of volume and quality of intercouple communication
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stagnating stage
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the individuals may start to avoid discussing the relationship because one or both think they know what the other will say
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avoiding stage
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the partners are physically seperating
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terminating stage
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self explanatory
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electronically mediated communication
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includes all forms of communication using electronic devices
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cyber addiction
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considered the major negative aspect of net usage
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flaming
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a form of e-mail aggression
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cyber bullying
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digital bullying or internet bullying. harassment that takes place using an electronic medium
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cyber stalking
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following or harassing others using electronic devices
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blog
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a website with dated entries, usually by a single author
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social networking
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we all know what that is
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text messaging
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again we know that
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