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41 Cards in this Set
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communal welfare
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sexual satisfaction, affection, and companionship
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agentic welfare
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self esteem, positive identity, self-actualization
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Interdependence
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relationship is mutually beneficial and mutually dependent
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Interpersonal attraction
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the various forces that draw people together
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Homogamy
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tendency to be attracted to others who have similar cognitions
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4 factors of Communication Behavior
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Sensitivity, confidence, talkativeness, flirtatiousness
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Quasi-courtship
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courtship that may or may not be serious
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Stages of Relational Escalation
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Initiating, Experimenting, Intensifying, Integrating, Bonding
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Emotional flooding
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happens when someone is continually frustrated with a goal
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Relational maintenance behavior
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actions and activities that sustain a relationship as the relational partners want it defined
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Centripetal force
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keep parts together
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Centrifugal force
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pull parts apart
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Equity theory
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how fairness works in various kinds of relationships
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Equity
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fairness based on input and output
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Relational dialects
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interplay between polar opposites (push and pull)
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Antagonistic dialectical tension
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person might want more connection whereas other wants more autonomy
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Non-antagonisitic dialectical tension
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both partners want to feel more connected and also have separatoin
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Characteristics of platonic relationship
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attraction of spirit, more equality, end in themselves, lack of exclusivity
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Eros love
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passionate love
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Ludus love
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game-playing love
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Storge love
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friendship-oriented love
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Pragma love
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practical and rational love
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Mania love
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possessive, dependent love
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Agape love
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idealism about love, disclosure to partner, good listening
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Companionate love
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shared feelings and experiences,
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Secure love
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feelings of security
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Intuitive love
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feelings of warmth, nonverbal means of communicating love
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Committed love
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togetherness, making plans for the future
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Traditional romantic love
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feelings of warmth and feeling beautiful, express emotional reactions to each other
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Traditional couples
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faith in social insitutions, woman should take mens last name, interdependent, conflict over major issues
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Interdependent couples
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no traditional beliefs, have to make up own norms, interdependent, have conflict over everything
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Separate couples
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autonomous, avoid conflict of all kind, "emotionally divorced"
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Cascade model
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decline in marital satisfaction, consideration of separation or divorce, separation, divorce
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Flooding
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emotional reactions, feelings of being surprised, overwhelmed, and disorganized by your partner's negative emotions
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Stages of coming apart
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Differentiating, circumscribing, stagnating, avoiding, terminating
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After the breakup
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tramatic event, outcry, denail, intrusion, working through, completion, identity change
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Outcry
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feelings of despair, hopelessness
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Denial
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the person separates from others to stay alone
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Intrusion
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she or he cannot think of anything but the failed relationship
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Working through
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figures of why relationship didnt work, gets closure
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Coherent narrative and sequential and episodic narratives do what?
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help people adapt better after a breakup
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