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three interpersonal needs |
C I A control inclusion affection |
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control |
desire to make things happen (leader) |
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inclusion |
need to belong |
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affection |
show/feel care, slightly more physical |
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attraction theory |
proximity, interpers. attract. , homophily |
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proximity |
start relationships are physically near to you |
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attraction (types) |
physical, social, task, matching hypothesis |
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physical attraction |
like the way they look |
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social attraction |
want to spend time with them |
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task attraction |
want to work with them |
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matching hypothesis attraction |
gravitate to people as attractive as we are |
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homophily (types) |
opposites don't attract
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background |
come from similar places |
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attitude |
beliefs, values, likes, dislikes |
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demographic |
age, sex, race, socio economically |
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social penetration theory |
-communication and self disclosure -dimesnsions |
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self disclosure |
need to reveal personal information to get an intimate reltionship |
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dimensions |
onion theory |
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breadth |
number of topics |
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depth |
detail of topics |
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frequency |
how often you reveal information |
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close relationships |
frequency, intimacy, importance, satisfaction |
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frequency |
see each other and talk often |
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intimacy |
knowing psychologically |
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importance |
meaningful, spend time on them |
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satisfaction |
dissatisfaction leads to broader consequences |
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uncertainty reduction theory |
-useful for initial interactions -aversive state -use scripts and stereotypes to reduce uncertainty |
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relational dialectics theory |
relationship contradictions |
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autonomy and connection |
independent but connected-parent student relationship at college- |
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expressiveness and privacy |
disclosing things, but keeping things - you dont need to know EVERYTHING |
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change and predictability |
predictableness but spontaneity |
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stages of coming together |
initiating, experimenting, intensifying, integrating, bonding |
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initiating |
fist few minutes of talking |
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experimenting |
get to know you stage-ask a ton of questions |
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intensifying |
deep self disclosure- inside jokes |
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integrating |
package deal-always together, share artifacts |
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bonding |
public commitment- move in together, facebook official |
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stages of falling apart |
differentiation, circumscribing, stagnating, avoiding, terminating |
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differentiation |
asserting differences, using "I" statements |
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circumscribing |
sticking to safe topics-avoiding topics that lead to argument |
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stagnating |
stuck in your relationship |
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avoiding |
physical and psychological |
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terminating |
ending relationship |
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terminating romantic relationships |
sudden death, passing away
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sudden death |
blindside |
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passing away |
fizzles out |
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terminating friendships |
-withdrawal, machiavellian -growing apart, what brought you together brings you apart |
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machiavellian |
manipulate them into not wanting to be around someone anymore |
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dark side of interpersonal |
deception, jealousy |
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deception |
-lying, withholding information
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truth bias |
believe our partner would never hurt us b/c they have our best interest in mind |
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frequency |
we lie to the people we are the closest to |
