Why Do Parents Use Spyware?

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I am going to be talking about whether it is good to use spyware or not. The authors place on spyware is that parents should use spyware but that maybe some parents might use it to just see what they're doing and invade their privacy. My opinion on spyware is that I agree with the author when he says parents should use spyware. I also disagree with the author when he says that some parents might use spyware to see everything their children are doing or chatting with. So I agree and disagree with the author because both reasons are very good reasons.
I agree with the author because some parents should use spyware. Some parents should use spyware to make sure their children are safe. They should do this because their children could be chatting

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