Attachment patterns come in 4 different patterns, they are avoidant, secure, ambivalent, and disorganized-disorientated. Avoidant is when a child does not make an attachment solely to the mother therefore, when the mother leaves the baby is not distressed; meaning the mothers parenting skills are very low because, she is not spending much needed time with her child. Secure attachment, is when the baby is self-reliant on the mother and, everytime the mother is away the baby becomes stressed. This parents style however, is the opposite of the avoidant, this parnets style is like wise that of a “helicopter parent’’, and gives the baby a lack of self-dependence.
