One time compassionate and able to show a minimum love for his wife. Like when he realizes he messed up and wants Helena to have her beloved man Demetrius devoted to her, or when he went out his confortable place to assure if the lovers were with the right pairs, and more, when after he had gotten what he wanted he showed some devotion of love for Titania and worries upon the mortal world.
But other times he is a savage, ruthless, power-hungry, jealous, womanizer, and a typical macho man from the time of Shakespeare – 16th century. One example is that he abuses from his power asking puck to walk around tricking and disturbing people, and they laugh and laugh of their disgrace.
Another aspect, that proves Oberon’s no commitment with Titania, is the fact he was within some dates while married, what was common during Renascence and in many other times mostly per part of the man. Even that way, the women never received this betrayed well, it was hurtful and against their marriage rules.
Therefore, Titania during the discussion with Oberon about the Indian boy pointed “Hippolyta, who 's described as being Oberon 's former ‘warrior love’ (2.1.73).” and “a country girl named Phillida /