Diversity And Dating

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Diversity in practice of a culture: In a similar manner, dating a person within the U.S is a common practice. One might want to imagine that the practice of dating a person is prohibited in Pakistan. This is partially true because more than a decade ago, Pakistan introduced websites for online dating with positive claims that supported the Islamic ideology of marriage. Given that, these dating websites are used as a tool to find a good marriage proposal, it is important to point out how much Muslims or Pakistanis, in general, rely on the use of this source. Family involvement is a priority and to quote an article on Courtship and Dating in Islam. I would like to quote the author’s words “focused courtship helps ensure the strength of the marriage …show more content…
practices an individualistic culture, it is not without doubt one can claim that romantic relationships within the U.S. are based on one’s attitude of finding a “good fit.” This tends to lean toward a selfish desire of “shopping” for a human that is able to fulfill one’s personal sensual or, financial needs or, matching one’s economic and religious background. There are some unspoken questions in hearts and minds of those who are involved in the “hookup culture” that seems to be inspired by Hollywood romantic films, thinking it is appropriate to pursue sexual activity during their dating phase. However, I am curious to know where do the teens and youth of today get the courage to develop this culture as a norm? It is obvious, deep down in themselves they question themselves “What am I getting out of this? Is it sexual pleasure for a day or two or, do I envision this person as a spouse who values and understands me for who I am?” Though the vows within a Christian marriage very explicitly mention one’s promise to journey with one’s better half in their “good times” and “bad times, I wonder what these words mean to those who speak it publicly at times of their …show more content…
This begs the question how do they see oneself fighting against forces of evil and wickedness without owning any supernatural powers? Further, can they be adorned in superhero dresses claiming the “Force” without using those imaginary swords? This is also to clarify how audiences in the U.S. understand the idea of evil and social justice and, fight against systemic evil as opposed to the corruption that lies within human minds and hearts. I am also curious to know what Christians understand using the word “Force.” Now, this leads me to question another question: What do Christians in the U.S. think about superhero films and how, do they see it connected to a Christian lifestyle, values, preaching and evangelism, as opposed to the connection with the American values and culture? On another level, it is also necessary to note that the concept of fighting against injustice is perceived in a different way in countries like India, Pakistan and Bangladesh. Though the Christians in these geographic locations might watch superhero and fiction based films, yet their preaching and evangelism and Christian ethical values does not include a word about films or dramas- the films or soaps that that are fictional. Therefore, the question is: Why do you what you watch? What do you gain out of it? How is it

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