First off they will only consider someone from the same caste or general social class to marry you off too. The reputation of your family plays a huge role in what kind of partner you would be matched with. “The basic rule seems to be that a family’s reputation is most important. It is understood that matches would be arranged only within the same caste and general social class, although some crossing of sub-castes is permissible if the class positions of the bride’s and grooms families are similar”(p.2). Meaning if you from a wealthy family you would not be marrying anyone in a completely lower social status. It here that I have to disagree with arrange marriage again, by creating such a distinction between social classes, it decreases the number of matches out there for you. What if there was someone who was destined for you but the only problem was they were poor are even too rich to be with you? Now the only notable thing about arrange marriage is if you don’t like you chosen partner before the wedding you can simply have your parents search again. For me arranged marriage as whole still seems really weird to believe is something that actually takes place around the world. I honestly believe in seeking out a partner on your own because you will learn about their flaws and perfection before you even consider marrying them. I will say this though in the respected country that actually follow this tradition there divorce rate in considerably low compared to those who does not follow this tradition. This also mean there less single parent households making the family more stable in every way possible. Say if the first match you made on Tinder was the person you had to marry would that not be a scary thing to have to go through because I was quite obvious that first person was in no way interesting to you are even someone you would consider marrying. For me I could never even consider trying an arrange marriage, because after the marriage we would be at this stage of awkwardness you have whenever you meet someone new that you like and this would slow down the flow of life simply trying to get out that awkward phase and naturally flowing within one another’s life, and if there a never a point of getting out that awkward phase you can just say let’s get a divorce because you would look at different by the rest of the society. While here in America, its different right after marriage life simply just keeps flowing cause you used to one another’s habits. Yes, divorce is high but, that
First off they will only consider someone from the same caste or general social class to marry you off too. The reputation of your family plays a huge role in what kind of partner you would be matched with. “The basic rule seems to be that a family’s reputation is most important. It is understood that matches would be arranged only within the same caste and general social class, although some crossing of sub-castes is permissible if the class positions of the bride’s and grooms families are similar”(p.2). Meaning if you from a wealthy family you would not be marrying anyone in a completely lower social status. It here that I have to disagree with arrange marriage again, by creating such a distinction between social classes, it decreases the number of matches out there for you. What if there was someone who was destined for you but the only problem was they were poor are even too rich to be with you? Now the only notable thing about arrange marriage is if you don’t like you chosen partner before the wedding you can simply have your parents search again. For me arranged marriage as whole still seems really weird to believe is something that actually takes place around the world. I honestly believe in seeking out a partner on your own because you will learn about their flaws and perfection before you even consider marrying them. I will say this though in the respected country that actually follow this tradition there divorce rate in considerably low compared to those who does not follow this tradition. This also mean there less single parent households making the family more stable in every way possible. Say if the first match you made on Tinder was the person you had to marry would that not be a scary thing to have to go through because I was quite obvious that first person was in no way interesting to you are even someone you would consider marrying. For me I could never even consider trying an arrange marriage, because after the marriage we would be at this stage of awkwardness you have whenever you meet someone new that you like and this would slow down the flow of life simply trying to get out that awkward phase and naturally flowing within one another’s life, and if there a never a point of getting out that awkward phase you can just say let’s get a divorce because you would look at different by the rest of the society. While here in America, its different right after marriage life simply just keeps flowing cause you used to one another’s habits. Yes, divorce is high but, that