Not only is the husband oblivious to this blind mans attributes but he made a terrible host. An excellent example of this after dinner when they all go to the living room .He starts asking offensive and stupid questions. Such as, “'How was the train ride?' I said. 'Which side of the train did you sit on?'” (38). The husband knows that Rob cannot see anything. The man is blind! When the wife comes to the blind mans aid the husband replies “' I just asked.'” (38) This portrays that he doesn't know how to relate to Robert. Both of these quotations prove that he doesn't know how to relate to him because he only sees Robert’s handicap; he is incapable of seeing him as a …show more content…
The television is on. A story about the Middle Ages, and their churches is showing. Robert, the blind man, doesn't know what a cathedral looks like. The husband couldn't explain what a cathedral looks like “'to save his life'” (44), but Robert comes up with an idea. He suggests that the husband illustrates the picture, by drawing, with Robert's hands on top, following every stroke of the hand. While they're drawing the cathedral together, the husband is being encouraged by Robert every step of the way. When they are done, Robert wants the husband to look, but he has his eyes closed because he "'thought it was something [he] ought to do'" (46). This is when the husband is no longer "blind" because he finally sees that Robert isn't just someone with a handicap, he's a friend, a fellow