Synthesis Essay On Masculinity

Masculinity is, by definition, qualities and/or the appearance traditionally associated with men, especially strength and aggressiveness. This makes men have to appear to be bellicose or tough to impress society and prove themselves as being ‘manly’ men. Making it very difficult for young men and boys to truly express themselves and let others into their personal lives. Crying, self expression, and asking for help are healthy traits for the growth of young boys and men. Without them, young boys could very potentially not be mentally healthy, and may become hostile and unable to connect to other human beings later on in life. Traditionally men are supposed to “be stupid, be unfeeling, obedient, soldierly and stop thinking (Source 2, ‘Being a Man’ by Paul Theroux),” while as their female counterparts were thought to be silent and motherly, yet over the years, women have been allowed to be more than that, they can stand up for themselves and have a voice, and express their true thoughts and opinions and not have others think of her as ‘less of a women.’ Men on the other hand, have always had a voice, always …show more content…
Being smart, kind, considerate, are just natural, humane qualities that all human beings should have, yet men have a hard time of being considered manly when having these traits. Instead of neglecting the in-touch males, we should praise them and treat them with the same respect as others their age. The young men that fail to be ‘manly’ aren’t truly failing anything, manliness is a concept that we as humans made up to make people act a certain way, while the same goes with trying to make women be feminine. A solution to stop having young men self doubt themselves and turning into beasts of aggression is to stop labeling what gender is ‘supposed’ to be associated with that quality, and instead praise individuals as themselves and not on what gender they come