Summary Of The Mask You Live In

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I was inspired by this subject matter as I traveled the world talking about ‘Miss Representation,’ [and] people consistently asked me, what is going on with our boys?” Newsom says. “At the time I was pregnant with my son Hunter, and increasingly sensitive to the extremes of masculinity that would be imposed on my own son,” she adds in the trailer for “The Mask You Live In.” Hunter is 2 now — “loving and empathic and joyful like so many boys are at this age,” she tells HuffPost — but she has concerns about the way he will respond to the expectations and stereotypes he’s likely to encounter as he

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