Meaning they have to be easy to get and at the same time hard to get, they must be the attained but unattainable all at once. It’s all about letting someone who is already taken, go after them but being something that cannot have, but they have to hint the husband that maybe, they could have them. The mistress has to talk about dates, going out, nights out of town, hint at taking people home with them from the bar, but they have to be cautious not to sound easy to get, but also sound prude.
Meaning they have to be easy to get and at the same time hard to get, they must be the attained but unattainable all at once. It’s all about letting someone who is already taken, go after them but being something that cannot have, but they have to hint the husband that maybe, they could have them. The mistress has to talk about dates, going out, nights out of town, hint at taking people home with them from the bar, but they have to be cautious not to sound easy to get, but also sound prude.