“ I get the sense I am going from one funeral to another. In my hand I’m clutching a pair of tickets to Shanghai. The plane takes off. I close my eyes. How can I describe to them in my broken Chinese about our mother’s life? Where should I begin?”. The reader can see that the character realizes disadvantages of not knowing her native language well. The character becomes more mature and understands what does family really meant. Jing-mei feels upset when she was saying goodbye to her great-aunt “I think about all the different ways we leave people in this world. Cheerily waving good-bye to someone at the airports, knowing we’ll never see each other again. Leaving other on the side of the road, hoping that we will. Finding my mother in my father’s story and saying good-bye before I have a chance to know her better” (paragraph …show more content…
She was very happy and exited to see her sisters, they ran to each other and hugged murmuring “Mama, Mama”. The only thing that Jing-mei was upset about was that her mom was not there with them. This was the day that her mother was dreaming of all her life. As a reader, I can see the change in Jing-mei. She realized who she is and she made her mother’s dream come true “ And now I also see what part of me is Chinese. It is so obvious. It is my family. It is in our blood. After all these years, it can finally be let go. I know we all see it: Together we look like our mother. Her same eyes, her same mouth, open in surprise to see, at last, her long-cherished with” (paragraph