These could be at work, at school, at church, with friends, etc. Tajfel and Turner (1979) suggested that through social identification people categorize themselves through the groups they identify. Therefore, I initially identified myself as a daughter, sister, cousin, niece and granddaughter because we were always around family. As we moved I identified myself as military brat, preacher’s kid, student; to that extent, because we moved so much I identified a lot as the “new kid”. Never truly disclosing information about myself or my family (Schutz, 1958, Altman & Taylor, 1973) and weighing the cost of any relationship with one of my classmates or someone from church (Social Exchange Theory).
Throughout my academic and work careers I can relate to Turner’s (1982) findings that one’s sense of social identity can be turned off and on based on the norms of the particular group or social category I belonged. And, by extension, the relevant situation I found myself in. I have therefore identified and incorporated into my thinking and actions bits of the various jobs I have held – health care, K-12, higher education, government, as well as being in the military myself. I have also embraced the experiences I have had in academics as well as my international