Personal Statement: The Purification Of A Gem

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The Purification of a Gem (Topic 2)

A rough, dull gemstone is put inside a scorching, blazing furnace, which breaks down its flesh, melting and refining its impurities. Through this excruciating process, a strong and beautiful gem is born to serve a variety of meaningful purposes--from becoming a gift for someone we cherish to being used as a healing stone. There is no better expression for the turbulent time of childhood and adolescence that have made me who I am today.

The past twenty years were a time of great struggle and perseverance, which have made me stronger and more humble. The process was agonizing, but in the seemingly endless dark tunnel, I believed that my family was growing and that God would put together all the trials and hardships into something good.
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My mother developed severe depression from her painful relationship with my father, both struggling with their own unsettled scars of childhood. Countless events drove my family to the edge of a precipice. My mother attempted suicide multiple times, and I vividly remember the ambulance sirens, police cars, and intensive care unit in the emergency room. My house was so unstable that it was like a ship violently rocking back and forth in the middle of a dark ocean, on the brink of being shipwrecked, broken, and lost... On these devastating days, all I could do was pray with my rosary in one hand and a handkerchief in the other for my broken heart. It is a miracle that my family made it through these critical

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