Infertile women have difficulty in organizing their emotional experiences and less use of the positive skills of cognitive emotion regulation; in anxiety, situations focus to severe reactions including criticism or blame themselves and to the negligence than others do in their right (blaming others), are too sensitive and contemplate to it (mental rumination). These negative characteristics in the long term cause separation from her husband and even those around. …show more content…
The greatest reduction is seen in catastrophizing, rumination and self-blaming strategies. These findings are in agreement with research of Gross et al. (2003), Kraaij et al. (2002), Harvey et al. (2004), Rothenberg et al. (2007) (51, 52, 24, 25). In explaining why emotional safety training is effective in cognitive emotion regulation in infertile women, it can be said: Emotional security model of training in order to perception, assessment, and expression of emotions, on the one hand, strengthen self-esteem and the other hand by training behaviors such as increased pride, acceptance and respect for differences and avoid sarcasm, contempt, and reproach, can provide the field of consciousness and control negative emotions so less use of maladaptive strategies. As well as through techniques to increase positive interactions, such as identifying and expressing feelings, border making, apology, and forgiveness when acrimony and conflict management instead of withdrawing, provides the field of more unanimity and increase sympathy and strengthening the attachment. And increase tends to forgiveness and tolerance in relations. People can through