In general, interpersonal communication is defined as a type of interaction between people (Wood, 2010). Most people confuse interpersonal communication with the number of people that are engaged in a conversation. Although it is quite clear that two people talking with each other are engaged in interpersonal communication, this simple definition can be misleading. Scholars emphasize that the true meaning of interpersonal communication is not based on the number of people doing the exchanges but rather on the nature of exchange between people (Wood, 2010). The clue in understanding interpersonal communication is on the root words that compose the term ‘interpersonal,’ itself. The term ‘interpersonal,’ for instance, came from two root word ‘inter’ and ‘person’ which means ‘between’ and ‘individual’ respectively. While exchanges are shared between people, it does not necessarily mean that the exchanges are personal. As observed by Wood, some communicate by referring to other people as objects while others address people out of their roles (Wood, 2010). In interpersonal communication, the nature of communication between individuals is personal and intimate. Two friends talking to each other or exchanging letters can be considered as interpersonal communication while asking for a glass of water from a waiter may not be considered as interpersonal but rather impersonal. Interpersonal …show more content…
People may not talk out loud but in their minds, they are already conversing with their selves. As observed by scholars, “inner speech usually signifies soundless, mental speech, arising at the instant we think about something, plan or solve problems in our mind, recall books read or conversations heard, read and write silently” (Jemmer, 2009). Although intrapersonal communication is concealed within the confines of the individual’s mind, still, the importance of intrapersonal communication could not be undermined. Most often, the individual finds it necessary to organize his or her plans and so conducts a self-assessment of the things he needs to prioritize. At times, he may evaluate his previous actions to see if what he did conforms to his moral standards and values. Furthermore, there are many occasions wherein an individual is in argument with his own self. In doing so, he experiences intrapersonal communication. As observed, inner speech is a “rather important and universal mechanism in human consciousness and psychic activity,” which also determines how an individual communicate with others (Brewster, 2010; Jemmer,