Setting personal goals like a relationship goal may seem to be a little strange in the beginning, and since we live in a society that expects us to find our soul mate and then get settled and cruise through life without a problem, there is no much help you can expect from the people around you. You should believe in yourself, in your partner and in the way you have chosen to make your relationship, and life, …show more content…
It is keeping and growing the relationship that is often the hardest to achieve. You might ask, why? First of all, a relationship is compose of two distinct individuals with different breeding, attitudes, characters, morals, likes and dislikes, so forth and so on. Basing from the aforementioned we can conclude that a relationship is not an easy partnership but this should never hinder us from wanting to have a relationship.
It is very important for you and your partner to talk about things that you want to achieve in your relationship. However keep it mind that there should be no pressure on any of you or else your goal setting will become obligatory and often makes the relationship suffocating leading to separation. In a relationship goal setting everything should come out voluntary meaning you both do things for the relationship because you want to and not because it is an obligation.
It is not necessary that you put your goals in a written form because in a relationship if you truly love your partner and you really care for him then everything that you will do will be toward that strengthening of your relationship. The same applies to your partner if he feels the same way then he will do just everything to keep the