A disorganized attachment style is when someone is confused about who to trust. Someone they trusted showed them, whether physically or mentally, that they are not worthy of love even their own love. It ultimately comes from the mindset of fear without solution, they can’t seek the solutions with others and can’t find it in themselves. Everywhere is a battlefield of emotions, they can’t find the peace in the storm. “As they look out at the world of relationships, the grass is always dead on both sides of the fence” (p.103). I feel most people when they think of a disorganized attachment style some kind of crazy person comes to the mind but I think it's more of the person who is the wall flower. It’s the person in class nobody knows anything
