“Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it’s broken, but you can still see the cracks in the reflection”, said lady gaga. The dictionary states trust as being a reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety of a person or thing; confidence. My definition of trust is something that is meant to be broken, but something that I have to be strong enough to overcome. When trusting someone respect is a key factor that you must display, be reliable, have the ability to be honest, have loyalty, and the ability to make good decisions.
Respect should be a key factor in any relationship of trust. In order to trust someone I have to be able to respect them, while also remembering to respect myself. Respect is a factor that you just cannot get …show more content…
For a person to trust someone they have to know that the person displays honesty. Being honest with someone may seem hard at times especially when someone`s feelings come into play. Some people feel that they have to lie to a person just to spare the persons feelings, but in all reality being honest is the best thing to do. Lying to someone only makes things worst especially when they find out the truth. Once I decided to lie to my mom about my reason for leaving out the house without asking. At the time I thought that if I lied about why I left, and where I was going it would have made my situation a little bit better. I was truly wrong about that she didn’t believe a word that I said. She asked me to see my phone and I gave it to her thinking that she couldn’t possibly find anything, but she did. In my phone she found every answer to every question that she had just asked me. It wasn’t until that moment that I realized that I just should have told the truth. Because maybe if I would have just been honest with her she wouldn’t have took away my whole Christmas. Giving the fact that I choose not to be honest I lacked one of trust most important factors. For a very long time it was hard for my mother to believe anything I said because I had lost her trust. I never could figure out what to do to get her to trust me again, the best thing I could come up with was to always be honest with her not matter how bad the truth
Respect should be a key factor in any relationship of trust. In order to trust someone I have to be able to respect them, while also remembering to respect myself. Respect is a factor that you just cannot get …show more content…
For a person to trust someone they have to know that the person displays honesty. Being honest with someone may seem hard at times especially when someone`s feelings come into play. Some people feel that they have to lie to a person just to spare the persons feelings, but in all reality being honest is the best thing to do. Lying to someone only makes things worst especially when they find out the truth. Once I decided to lie to my mom about my reason for leaving out the house without asking. At the time I thought that if I lied about why I left, and where I was going it would have made my situation a little bit better. I was truly wrong about that she didn’t believe a word that I said. She asked me to see my phone and I gave it to her thinking that she couldn’t possibly find anything, but she did. In my phone she found every answer to every question that she had just asked me. It wasn’t until that moment that I realized that I just should have told the truth. Because maybe if I would have just been honest with her she wouldn’t have took away my whole Christmas. Giving the fact that I choose not to be honest I lacked one of trust most important factors. For a very long time it was hard for my mother to believe anything I said because I had lost her trust. I never could figure out what to do to get her to trust me again, the best thing I could come up with was to always be honest with her not matter how bad the truth