In the article by Goffman, “Stigma and Social Identity,” introduce the concept of “mixed contacts.” The article defines this concept as the “moments when the stigmatized and normal are in the same “social situation”...in …show more content…
As her son struggles to fit in, she struggles with the obligation to share his stigma that is projected from society. In social settings, they are a unit. The “courtesy stigma,” introduced in Goffman’s article, is her connection to the shadow of her son’s actions (Goffman, 30). When neighbors avoid him, they avoid her as well.
Peggy’s internal conflict is the acceptance of this shared “courtesy stigma” and the memories she has of her son being an average teenager. Although her current reality is far from the peaceful memories in her head, she hopes that one day he will wake up the same boy he was at age 17. Her eternal hope for her son to be normal once again would materialize, there would be less stigma projected onto her and her son. In this position in society, she is stuck between understanding her son’s illness and his contradicting