Bratty Kids Should Not Receive Participation Awards

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Bratty Kids Should Not Receive Participation Awards
No matter how bad the player is, they know they will get a trophy. They don’t even have to try! Some people believe that kids should receive participation trophies. Some people also oppose that. I believe that participation rewards should not be handed out and kids should have to earn their trophies the right way, by winning.
One of the big reasons children should not get these plastic trophies is because of a lack of effort. Let’s say a kid on a team never shows up to practice or training and does not contribute to their team league or club. Why should they get a trophy? They also shouldn’t get a trophy for a bad attitude (Website #1). The second reason is that the rewards will blind kids from knowing when they really earned something. If they receive the same trophy with the label of “Participation” every season, how will they know the difference between that and a first place trophy (Website #2)? Our society also tends to go overboard on praising kids. According to Carol Dweck professor of psychology, participation trophies is not the right type of praise (Website #1). The children should learn to get trophies for their victory.
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Some argue that it makes kids happy to receive these rewards and encourages them to have fun. They also argue that having fun is what it’s about. Although this may be true, they can have fun and be encouraged to continue without receiving trophies (Website #3). The whole point is to have fun right?
I have come to believe that participation rewards are not good for kids. Kids can get them with a lack of effort. This also shields kids from knowing when they really earned something. Lastly, we go overboard on praise. I believe these awards should not be handed

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