Bewildered by society’s dating game? You’re not alone. The dating culture appears to be quick and easy, but ultimately causes confusion and unhappiness. Some alleged benefits of present day dating can be considered the roots to its’ major issues. To understand and create a true and meaningful relationship, time, effort, and communication are crucial. We cannot let our developing culture, that promotes speed and convenience without obligation, influence the appropriate approach to dating.
The dating culture of today can be seen as a positive experience. We have shifted our constraining view of the proper behavior of relationships and romance. Nowadays, without commitment, it can be seen as carefree. People can explore different options and …show more content…
Online dating provides eager singles a fast and effortless way to explore potential partners. Tinder, a popular dating app, allows you to quickly establish communication by matching you with promising partners. It only takes a second to swipe right, meaning you like them, or swipe left, meaning you don’t. You can eliminate anyone who does not interest you or meets your standards. This also can build up confidence by acknowledging a mutual attraction. This, and many other online dating apps or websites, allows people all around the nation to have access to countless suitors instantly at their reach. With the addition of social media, communication is practically effortless. You get to skip the beginning awkward “getting to know you” phase. Technology helps eliminate any uncomfortable face to face interactions. All of this is quick and easy, but there are some major flaws to this …show more content…
There is lack of direct communication, which creates a large gap from reality. In this gap, there is room for interpretation, which can lead to insecurity. Eli J Finkel, a professor of psychology at Northwestern University, analysed online dating and offline dating in “Online Dating: A Critical Analysis From the Perspective of Psychological Science” and considered the three major services online dating offers: access, communication, and matching. With communication, people, online, tend to over interpret social cues. (Finkel, “Online Dating: A Critical Analysis”) Conversations are hard to interpret and clear communication is not expressed between partners. Laura Klinger, in the Editorial Board of CSAL at Grand Valley State University, reviews the nature of dating culture in college and expresses the challenges, especially communication, that inflict negative consequences on students. (Klinger, ”Hookup Culture on College Campuses:”) In her article,”Hookup Culture on College Campuses:”, Klinger explains a study done, of twenty-five undergraduate students, were four main themes emerged explaining why clear communication is challenging. One of the themes was “...relational talk was feared to be potentially stigmatizing and a means of losing power within the relationship...”. Expressing clear and straightforward communication creates vulnerability, resulting in losing any “power” in the relationship. But without
The dating culture of today can be seen as a positive experience. We have shifted our constraining view of the proper behavior of relationships and romance. Nowadays, without commitment, it can be seen as carefree. People can explore different options and …show more content…
Online dating provides eager singles a fast and effortless way to explore potential partners. Tinder, a popular dating app, allows you to quickly establish communication by matching you with promising partners. It only takes a second to swipe right, meaning you like them, or swipe left, meaning you don’t. You can eliminate anyone who does not interest you or meets your standards. This also can build up confidence by acknowledging a mutual attraction. This, and many other online dating apps or websites, allows people all around the nation to have access to countless suitors instantly at their reach. With the addition of social media, communication is practically effortless. You get to skip the beginning awkward “getting to know you” phase. Technology helps eliminate any uncomfortable face to face interactions. All of this is quick and easy, but there are some major flaws to this …show more content…
There is lack of direct communication, which creates a large gap from reality. In this gap, there is room for interpretation, which can lead to insecurity. Eli J Finkel, a professor of psychology at Northwestern University, analysed online dating and offline dating in “Online Dating: A Critical Analysis From the Perspective of Psychological Science” and considered the three major services online dating offers: access, communication, and matching. With communication, people, online, tend to over interpret social cues. (Finkel, “Online Dating: A Critical Analysis”) Conversations are hard to interpret and clear communication is not expressed between partners. Laura Klinger, in the Editorial Board of CSAL at Grand Valley State University, reviews the nature of dating culture in college and expresses the challenges, especially communication, that inflict negative consequences on students. (Klinger, ”Hookup Culture on College Campuses:”) In her article,”Hookup Culture on College Campuses:”, Klinger explains a study done, of twenty-five undergraduate students, were four main themes emerged explaining why clear communication is challenging. One of the themes was “...relational talk was feared to be potentially stigmatizing and a means of losing power within the relationship...”. Expressing clear and straightforward communication creates vulnerability, resulting in losing any “power” in the relationship. But without