In the first two weeks of talks, the effective criticisms were discussed. In the lecture, when you give someone a valid criticism, given in six steps. Criticism should immediately, and based on performance. In addition, you should give a specific and accurate criticism and more praise, so it cannot make people feel embarrassed to give criticism. It would be better with the opening on the positive side. By indicating the need to adopt action to shut down it is also a good idea.
Situation:
I rent a house with three other people. We usually eat dinner together. After dinner, some of us are required to wash the bowls and plates. Therefore, we developed a rule is we take turns washing bowls and plates, we divided us into two groups. 2 people in …show more content…
I have a happy time, because we share this house. We cook together, sometimes we play cards together (opens a positive). But you know, we have made. We took turns washing dishes rules, we are in the same round, so we have to wash the dishes together. However, the fact that I will never have to do everything the work and you go back to your room "(ie criticism). Although I immediately criticized as a direct point to my friend. He was unhappy. I told him: "I know you have a lot of assessment do, you need to like to do when you do not check the day's lesson, you should go to work, you're tired, when you're home, I know you're not a lazy. Man. When we do general cleaning, you always show activity (providing more praise than criticism), but I have to do all these things like you do. You cannot leave me wash bowls and cutlery in the kitchen (criticism must be based on performance). It is wrong, let me do the work of two people (at a specific and accurate criticism). So, I hope you can in the future wishes to wash my dissertation. This house is rented by the four of us, but not me. We have a responsibility to put this house in good condition. I do not request you to do a lot of things began to wash the bowls and plates with me, because of the rules we have done "(off by indicating the need to take …show more content…
The hard part is a positive open. Because when you always want to criticize others, it may make people unhappy, the situation may be awkward. It is a bit difficult to expand criticism, but do not let the public discontent. My way of communication does not interfere with my ability to get a cogent criticism, because I usually speak directly. When I encounter some problems, I just have to communicate with people and others, and to develop. I think it should be noted that the implementation of the action should be more, because it is always tricky, when you need someone to do something. Also, I reckon I did not succeed in this case, I will try different if I repeat the
Situation:
I rent a house with three other people. We usually eat dinner together. After dinner, some of us are required to wash the bowls and plates. Therefore, we developed a rule is we take turns washing bowls and plates, we divided us into two groups. 2 people in …show more content…
I have a happy time, because we share this house. We cook together, sometimes we play cards together (opens a positive). But you know, we have made. We took turns washing dishes rules, we are in the same round, so we have to wash the dishes together. However, the fact that I will never have to do everything the work and you go back to your room "(ie criticism). Although I immediately criticized as a direct point to my friend. He was unhappy. I told him: "I know you have a lot of assessment do, you need to like to do when you do not check the day's lesson, you should go to work, you're tired, when you're home, I know you're not a lazy. Man. When we do general cleaning, you always show activity (providing more praise than criticism), but I have to do all these things like you do. You cannot leave me wash bowls and cutlery in the kitchen (criticism must be based on performance). It is wrong, let me do the work of two people (at a specific and accurate criticism). So, I hope you can in the future wishes to wash my dissertation. This house is rented by the four of us, but not me. We have a responsibility to put this house in good condition. I do not request you to do a lot of things began to wash the bowls and plates with me, because of the rules we have done "(off by indicating the need to take …show more content…
The hard part is a positive open. Because when you always want to criticize others, it may make people unhappy, the situation may be awkward. It is a bit difficult to expand criticism, but do not let the public discontent. My way of communication does not interfere with my ability to get a cogent criticism, because I usually speak directly. When I encounter some problems, I just have to communicate with people and others, and to develop. I think it should be noted that the implementation of the action should be more, because it is always tricky, when you need someone to do something. Also, I reckon I did not succeed in this case, I will try different if I repeat the