Are arranged marriages really a good option? No arranged marriages are honestly the worst thing that can happen to anyone whether your 16 years old or 40. When someone decides to get married it should be with someone they truly love, someone who you want to grow old with, someone who you think about and say i want you to be the parent of my child. Arranged marriages are something that creates so many negative effects in the world; yes there can be something positive about it but it is rare. These type of marriages cause things such as rape, depression/suicide , and can cause kids young kids (12-16 years old) to make choices such as running away from home and going falling in the wrong footsteps.
“If you love me, sneak out of your father's house tomorrow night…” “ Oh lysander, I swear i'll be there tomorrow”(A Midsummer Night's Dream).This scene is a perfect example of why arranged marriages are one of the worst things that can happen to someone and the negative effects it can bring. Young teens like Hermia and lysander from the play A Midsummer Night's Dream decide to run away due to the fact that her father has already arranged her marriage with someone else. Sadly these are things that used to happen on an everyday bases not so much now …show more content…
They are treated like objects. “...And lysander stop acting like she's yours i have more right to her than you”; “ … Thats why i am giving her my daughter. Shes mine. I can do whatever i want with her”. As you can see hermia is not taken into consideration she is expected to obey her father and do as he says he treats her like if she was his property. Not only does her father treat her as an object but so does her “fiance” demetrius ( arranged marriage husband). He treats her as if she was a toy that he is fighting over with lysander (hermais true