Their friendliness, warmth, and supportiveness can lead them to be very popular, and can lead to too much social stimuli. Their perfectionism, pursuit of ideals, and energy they put into others also prove to be draining when the INFJ fails to set boundaries for his/her own self (INFJ Personality, 2016). Although the INFJ readily connects with and understands others, they seldom feel understood. Do to the rarity of the INFJ personality (1% of population), they often feel out of place and painfully misunderstood. Feeling understood is something which the INFJ searches for relentlessly, but rarely achieves (Calder, 2015). The accuracy of this point truly struck a chord with me. Feeling as if others fully understand me is an elusive concept that I am in a constant quest obtaining. However, this scarcely happens and sometimes seems to me like a futile
Their friendliness, warmth, and supportiveness can lead them to be very popular, and can lead to too much social stimuli. Their perfectionism, pursuit of ideals, and energy they put into others also prove to be draining when the INFJ fails to set boundaries for his/her own self (INFJ Personality, 2016). Although the INFJ readily connects with and understands others, they seldom feel understood. Do to the rarity of the INFJ personality (1% of population), they often feel out of place and painfully misunderstood. Feeling understood is something which the INFJ searches for relentlessly, but rarely achieves (Calder, 2015). The accuracy of this point truly struck a chord with me. Feeling as if others fully understand me is an elusive concept that I am in a constant quest obtaining. However, this scarcely happens and sometimes seems to me like a futile